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ARE YOU OKAY WITH A LONER PARTNER?
I am okay if my partner is a loner. He doesn't need to have circles or friends. Being in a relationship, is not about crowd. It is about someone who can learn to be alone. Being alone secure peace, stability and can minimise arguing over other people in a relationship. You need to find the same standard in a relationship. If not you will need compromise and understanding among each other.
Loners are very strong individuals and they are in fact more suitable to be in a relationship.
CAN YOU FIND ANOTHER PARTNER DESPITE BEING MARRIED?
Yes, it is possible. This is called open relationship. Your partner must be open enough to let you date the others, and vice versa. Most importantly is that there is no more intimacy in your first marriage, so it is not too much to wait for the next fate. Re marry is always not easy, due to the first marriage that you shared with another. So it is always important to be honest and open to your next other half. Both parties must also be willing to divorce each other so that they can be with another person in a new marriage.
In order to avoid cheating, it is to wait until marriage to give it to your next other half. This can provides stability and trust in your new marriage life.
HOW IS YOUR MARRIAGE LIKE?
We are good. We seldom argue, and husband will take care of baby with me together. Our child came one year after our marriage, and I am a happy mother now. However, we have stopped our intimacy due to some health issues. So he will understand if I have the next fate. I haven't been with many guys to be honest, so I am truly not ready to know a lot of them. I am not in a hurry because I believe in fate. I will leave it to heaven's will to decide my next fate while doing what I love at the moment.
Do not rush especially in a relationship, everything will come by naturally if we can stay patient.
DO YOU HAVE GUY FRIENDS?
Rarely. The guys I know is usually through school or at work. I hardly interact with them as I stay at home most of the time. My time is mostly spend on family and passions. I also enjoy most of my alone time as it allows me to focus on myself, and my health especially. As we are getting older, it is important to look after ourselves more than needing to join the crowd. I am not sociable, and prefer to only talk to people I feel comfortable with. To be honest, not many people know me and I am totally fine with that.
Guys come and go, they will not stay long in our lives. So it is important to get the right one, instead of having a ton of them.
Lots Of Hugs, Blush Bibis